Lost In Relationships


As I was listening to a song by Pixie Lott called Dancing On My Own, my consciousness drifted into a dream-like state again, with two inner voices having a vivid conversation about people having difficulties maintaining a love relationship…

Voice A: I keep giving and and the other party keeps taking. I’ve been waiting way too long… for that person to return. Sigh… I feel like I’m dancing… on my own.

Voice B: When emptiness is perceived inside, there’s a tendency to fill the void. When there’s a frantic search for external love, there’s always pain. One cannot happen without the other.

Voice A: Why is a relationship so draining?

Voice B: But it doesn’t have to be, dear one. You sing like a broken record. And how can you find the next track, when you are stuck in a groove?

Voice A: So, what do I do?

Voice B: Why don’t you come Home? You are feeling so disconnected … All that waiting… You feel nothing on your own. Trying so hard, yet feeling disrespected.

Voice A: I don’t know where Home is. I’m so disillusioned and lost.

Voice B: When you try to play this game like mating Kings with Queens and finding the right one, you give so much, whilst getting so little. So, why don’t you stop and listen. The one that needs to come Home is you … not the other. And Home is where the heart is – where your Higher Self resides.

Voice A: I don’t comprehend…

Voice B: Until you are comfortable under your own skin, you won’t be with another. Unconditional Love is within. Make a promise to yourself to take some time off, to find yourself, dear one.

Voice A: Maybe I should. I thought I had to give … in order to get.

Voice B: Try not to be too harsh on yourself. Relationships help people to learn. It’s the teacher, and you are the student. Also understand, one of the best relationships you could have is one that is formed …. with your divine self. That’s when you will rejoice… even while dancing alone!


Something incredible is happening to our planet right now. Metaphysical experts explain that the infusion of electromagnetic signals in the form of solar flares are affecting us physically, emotionally, mentally as well as spiritually, causing a shift internally, sometimes causing a feeling of being lost. On a related note, a profound message from Divine Ascended Master Saint Germain has been channeled by Geoffrey Hoppe for humanity right now. The following is an excerpt :

“In your awakening you’ll find that it’s very important to have time with yourself. In the past, many of you needed to be with other people in order to feel safe or comfortable. Some of you had a difficult time being alone … Now you will need time by yourself.

Allow yourself to have this time. It’s very important because this is when you bring divine energy into your life. When you have a lot of commotion around you-city noises, people, traffic, offices-it’s more difficult to bring in the divine. Make sure to give this to yourself….

There are spiritual physics at work within you at very beautiful and deep levels. It’s important to listen and not ignore them anymore… Listen with your heart. It’s a beautiful, amazing transformation process… The call is for you to come Home to you, now. It’s the call for integration, with no agenda other than to reunite with you.”

Ghost Stories – The Earth Remembers!

Human beings love ghost stories and their fascination towards the subject has led to many horror movies being made for public consumption. A few like Sixth Sense, depict the ghostly realm quite accurately whereas others are over sensationalized. People who possess clairvoyance are able to see these earthbound spirits and I have a few clairvoyant friends who indeed have been approached by the spirits as often, these beings try to make contact with those who can see them. So, we do live in a multi-dimensional world whereby physical and non-physical realms co-exist. Spirits indeed are responsible for some hauntings but not all. What isn’t common knowledge is that some paranormal sightings are actually pseudo-hauntings. Not all visions of ghosts signify the presence of spirits. In some cases, what people saw are just re-plays of past scenes at a location. This is because our Earth remembers human action!

Renowned mediums like James Van Praagh , Lisa Williams and John Holland agree to the above statement and John Holland actually dedicated a whole chapter on pseudo-hauntings in his book, The Spirit Whisperer. He has seen visions that keep repeating themselves like a video player stuck on re-play mode. In these cases, the spirits keep doing the same thing over and over again. This ties in with a case that I read from a book compilation of ghostly sightings. In that story, a person kept seeing a couple jumping off a tall building (committing suicide) at the exact same time every night! Metaphysical experts label this as ‘place memory’. Indigenous people including the Red Indians of the past have been known to be able to ‘read’ the memory of dirt of the Earth.

A gifted person, Lee Carroll has also channeled from divine sources, similar information before. However in his case, he uses the term called ‘crystalline grid.’ He explained that Earth has multiple energetic grids and the most commonly known is our planet’s magnetic grid. The crystalline grid is one that remembers human action and those who are sensitive enough can see or feel the vibes surrounding a particular place. There is much we don’t understand about the dimensions that exist in our world as Earth is far more complicated than what it appears to be. As the vibrations of our planet shift further during the present Ascension of Earth, human beings will start to understand more about multi-dimensionality and quantum scientist will be the ones giving evidence to support revelations by gifted people, such as clairvoyants, channelers and psychics. It has been said that the veil separating our physical world and the invisible realms is getting thinner, and in time to come, we will remember the true nature of our being and our habitat.

If Only…

“If you realize that all things change…
there is nothing you will try to hold on to.

If you are not afraid of dying…
there is nothing you cannot achieve.”

– Lao Tzu