To Forgive And Forget?

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The phrase ‘to forgive and forget’ is quite a common advice for people who have been hurt physically, emotionally or mentally in a hope that they can move on to a new chapter in their lives. However, in very traumatic cases, certain people say they may try to forgive but find it extremely difficult to forget. I fully agree with this notion and that is why I don’t tell people to shut out the memory, in my healing practice. I have learnt that by default, every single moment we encounter is stored in our cellular memory (DNA field). So, it is literally impossible to forget 100%. However, what I try to do is to suggest that people forgive or make peace with the perpetrator who caused them so much pain/anger while at the same time love themselves more.

In my past reiki healing sessions, several of my clients have spontaneously burst into tears , halfway through those sessions. From what I could discern from angelic guidance, the healing energy that I sent to them stirred up past painful episodes. Sometimes, bad childhood memories may surface from the subconscious mind whereas on other occasions, these memories could be from past lives! When that happens, I ask my clients to acknowledge these feelings and tell them to ‘let it all out’. I explain to them that there is NO shame in crying. (Note: In cases where my clients are males, I don’t tell them to ‘be a man’ and end the flow of tears. On the other hand, I explain that it is an effective way to release pain and sorrow). Then I suggest to them to forgive those who have hurt them as well as to send love to their own selves. In summary, I will never advise people to suppress their pent-up feelings or tell them to force themselves to forget those moments because the memories would continue to exist anyway.

Instead, I explain to them that every single event has no meaning until we assign it with one. A memory is painful to recollect because we reacted in a particular fashion. The definition was given by us and by the same token, we can always change our description of it by reacting differently. So, I suggest to my clients to make peace with the memory by forgiving the ‘culprit’. I explain that when we forgive someone, we are not implying that it’s alright for people to hurt us. Instead, we are trying to lighten ourselves by letting go of the anguish feelings. If we choose not to forgive, the burden will continue and we will never attain inner peace. In other words, it is perfectly fine to admit that some horrible event has happened to us, and often, it is part and parcel of our challenging life on Earth. But if we choose to heal and rise up from being in ‘victim mode’, a brand new opportunity arises.

In the end, I explain to people that we do NOT have to be defined by our history. Instead, we ought to realize that we have the ability to chart a new future. In doing so, we can live as an empowered person. Change always begins with the belief … that we CAN change!

We Are All Connected

People of different cultures and faith practice different prayers. During the said prayers, certain people make offerings to honor the Ascended Masters/ Divine Beings whom they pray to. Recently, I was invited to such a ceremony , where the organizer was honoring the beings called Lakshmi (Goddess of Prosperity) and Medicine Buddha. Before the person began leading the gathering to recite certain prayers, I called upon Kwan Yin, Goddess of Mercy and asked her whether any divine spirits were present. Interestingly, I got the message that both Lakshmi and Medicine Buddha were ALREADY there! In addition to that, Archangel Metatron as well as several souls related to those people in that ceremony too have appeared. I found out that one of the souls was the ‘deceased husband’ of the organizer. After the event, I asked three ladies (whose third eye was open) whether they ‘saw’ any divine presence during the prayers. All of them admitted seeing Medicine Buddha (also known as the Blue Buddha) . One of them even said she saw Kwan Yin. This affirms my suspicion that the Divine are always aware of our activities in this physical realm. We are connected all the time but because majority of us can’t see them, we sometimes feel so lost and alone in our journey on Earth.

Recently, a young man came to me to seek reiki healing as he was tired and stressed out. As we were chatting, a clairvoyant who was present saw the presence of Jesus, standing next to my client. He admitted that he resonated with Christianity although he is open to other belief system as well. When he discovered I could make simple contact with the divine, he told me he wanted to know who his guardian angel is, as he was pretty lost. So, I proceeded to ask Archangel Michael (whom I often consult). Interestingly the answer was that his dominant Archangel Guide is Archangel Raphael and his dominant Ascended Master Guide is Jesus. That helped to explain why the clairvoyant saw Jesus even BEFORE we started our reiki healing session! Once again, this validates the saying that we are never alone.

Life as a human can be challenging, because when we incarnate, memories of the Other Side are suppressed and our sixth sense is toned down. However, many spiritual people have channeled that this is by design as it forms part of the test on Earth. In such absence of memory, humans are now given free choice to choose how they wish to live their lives. Do they long to go on a spiritual path or do they succumb to the duality of light and dark? Darkness in this context means caving in to the Ego’s selfishness, greed for power, money, etc. In other words, souls are given the opportunity to evolve. As the consciousness of humanity changes, Earth vibrations alter in conjunction with our direction. Many gifted people have concurred, humanity has gone beyond the point of the Doomsday potential and that is why Year 2012 passed without the destruction of the world despite many catastrophic prophecies surrounding it. As the vibration of humans and Earth continue to ascend, people will start becoming more sensitive to the presence of the Angelic Kingdom and spirit world. Once people are able to connect with the Divine forces from the Other Side, they will feel less separated than before. When that happens to an individual, it will dawn on that person that the prevalent perceived separation has always been …..just an illusion.

Path To Happiness

“If you knew your potential to feel good, you would ask no one to be different so that you can feel good. You would free yourself of all of that cumbersome impossibility of needing to control the world, or control your mate, or control your child. You are the only one who creates your reality. For no one else can think for you, no one else can do it. It is only you, every bit of it you.”

― Esther Hicks, author and channeler.

Fallen Angels?

Questions (for Archangel Michael) : Can you please explain what a fallen angel is? Are you one? What is the purpose of a fallen angel?

Archangel Michael : I am not fallen… You are not fallen… There is no down…There is no up.. There was no heaven to fall from.. Please understand that your human’s definition of heaven and hell … and limbo … and all of these things that are there is NOT what it really is… Angels play roles.. They have specific roles based upon their contracts with Source, just like you humans have contracts with Source … And my role is to empower and complete the burning nature of the passions within You to awaken enlightened and activate you as the human race… I did not have to fall to do that.. And no one has ever fallen … Not even Lucifer!

Note : The above is an excerpt of a Q & A session with Archangel Michael facilitated by a gifted medium named Pamela Aaralyn who also works as a trance channeler.

Facing Life’s Challenges!

Disciple : Master, how does one overcome pain and suffering in life?
Master : (Without hesitation) By tackling the challenges head-on.
Disciple : Could you please elaborate? You seem so peaceful all the time… I wish to learn that.
Master : Dear one, please understand that my life was not devoid of sadness and frustration. Like most people, I have had my fair share of career and relationship failures. It was during those periods that I realized I needed to educate myself more about life. As such, I started embracing the teachings of wise people from the past and present.
Disciple : So, were you married before?
Master : Yes but it ended with a separation.
Disciple : You must have been devastated …
Master : Sad, I was … but even that episode taught me so much … You see, we tried so hard to salvage our relationship … But in the end, I realized that we were just trying to force things to happen … Initially, arguments happened because we wanted the other to compromise first … Then when we tried suppressing our own feelings by succumbing to the other’s wishes , we became depressed.
Disciple : That’s why you sought divorce?
Master : I call it separation … I don’t hate her now because I realized she was just a reflection of the things I needed to work on myself. When my ego was at the forefront, I argued to insist that she should change instead of me. Anger was consuming me all the time. All there was left was bitterness in my heart. When I tried the opposite approach, I compromised so much of who I am, that I felt trapped as a slave to that relationship.
Disciple : So what happened afterwards?
Master : In the end, we had a heart-to-heart talk and came to the understanding that we need not sacrifice our identity to the extent of depriving our happiness. We understood we were unique in our way. By separation, we were gifting the other freedom to express without harboring bitterness towards each other. It was liberating. But please do not misunderstand that all marriages should end that way. In my observation, every relationship including business relationships taught me more about life. Always, there is something to learn.
Disciple : Sorry, I really didn’t know you had such challenges.
Master : You need not be sorry … By the way, you see yourself as a disciple but yet I cognize you as your own Master.
Disciple : But how can I see myself as such when there is so much I’m still learning from you?
Master : Dear one, Mastery of self… as with life, is not a destination but a journey. A true Master is one who applies what he has learnt diligently and also understands … that there is more to learn. Growth is what a Master seeks… not stagnation. And challenges are the seeds for such growth.
Disciple : That’s very enlightening… But what if the challenge is like a heavy downpour?
Master : Should that be the case, then open your umbrella of courage and perseverance. Also by remembering that nothing is permanent, comfort yourself in knowing that it too shall come to pass.
Disciple : Oh my…
Master : And at the end of each challenging period , comes the joy of knowing how far one has progressed, yes?
Disciple : I suppose so!
Master : Excellent… you have now understood the true reward of Life… the realization of Mastery within!

Learning From Near Death Experience

What happens in the Afterlife? Of course , majority of us would have to wait for our time of passing over before we can really say what happens. However, if we have been extremely curious and resourceful, we would have found out that there are people who literally have died for a short moment but came back to life, with enlightening descriptions of the after death experience . Such a case is termed as NDE or Near Death Experience. Often NDE has a major impact on the survivor as now the person views life from a wider perspective, having had a personal glimpse of the Other Side.

I have personally read many NDE cases over the years and I find the revelations mind-expanding and very liberating. It is as though my ego is cast aside to make way for the ultimate truth of life. One of the more interesting NDEs that I have come across involves a lady by the name Reinee Pasarow of California, USA.

In May 1966, 16-year-old Reinee Pasarow became unconscious following an allergic food reaction and then had an NDE. The following are excerpts of her testimony :

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“I only became aware when I heard the very loud sound of the fire engines arriving. I heard my best friend from elementary school calling to me. She was calling, ‘Reinee, don’t die, don’t die Reinee.’

I heard this and it seemed as if it was in a foreign language to me. I finally computed the meaning of this and realized that my life was in danger. I had an obligation to fight for my life because of my mother and my friend, because she had such terror in her voice that it cut through to my heart.

I tried to fight for my life, but the battle became overwhelming. At this point I just surrendered myself, my soul, to the power that brings us all into existence and that gives us all life. I knew that this was the source of all life and the way of all things. I surrendered to that and I entered a state of peacefulness.

Then just like that (clapping her hands), I became a ball of light or energy in the midst of this crowd that was circling a body. I became massively aware, unlike any awareness I had had during physical existence. I was not really aware of myself. I was aware of everyone around me. I was aware of my mother and my neighbors, and my friends and the firemen and what they were thinking and what they were feeling and what they were hoping and what they were praying. This was such a pummeling input of emotion and information that I was all at once overwhelmed and confused, and rather disoriented.

I followed their attention to something on the sidewalk and I looked at a body on the sidewalk… And then I became aware that the thing on the sidewalk, that thing that suddenly became a piece of meat to me, was what I had identified as myself before, but had no connection with it other than that I had been with it for a very long time. But it had nothing to do with me because suddenly, I was more of a person than I had ever been before. I was more conscious than I could ever be. I was free of the limitations of being a physical being.

…And with that (taps the table) again like this, I was bumped way up, up above some light wires. From that point I could watch everyone beneath me, but I was not as closely associated with them, [but] I was completely feeling everything they were feeling.

I watched my mother and a boy come out of the house and up the hill which I could not have seen physically. I was very sad for my mother. I was very sad for my friend who kept calling me…So my concern was for them. I spent my time observing them and calling to them – calling to them that everything was as it should be, that everything was fine, that I was free, that it was wonderful…. I tried to communicate this to them over and over again and I realized that I had no mouth. I had no body. They could not hear what I was saying to them. I would have to leave them in the same hands I had left myself in the process of dying. With that I turned away, just sort of like a ball, just turned away.

My attention turned away lovingly but knowing that there was nothing I could do. I turned away from them and began to pull up. I became aware, as if I were a camera on a space ship or something, of our place – my particular little street and then my particular little town. I kept pulling up and up and up to a point where I could observe the whole Earth. This was wonderful!

The Earth was alive and the Earth was singing. It was singing a single song and in that song everyone had a voice. Every human being had a very important note to add to this precious song of the Earth. It was a song of love and every living being had something to add to the song of Earth. Every one of these essences was very much connected. I was seeing it not like we see normally. I was seeing it both from a macroscopic – from the point of view of the spaceship – and from a microscopic vantage point. Microscopic in that I could see an amoeba in the ocean was connected to the song of the heart of all humanity; and that this world was responding to the song in our hearts in a miraculous, unified, and beautiful way. I too began too sing. I was so overcome with joy. It wasn’t a song obviously with the mouth. I had no mouth. I had no body. I simply was. I became a part of that song and very full of joy that I could have something to contribute to this sacred beauty of our Earth and of all people.

I became very aware that we as people have a unique influence on the world even if we are not actively doing something. We influence this planet by our state of being. We influence this planet very positively if we are filled with love and respect for others or negatively if our hearts are negative.”

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After being out of her body for some time Reinee eventually saw a Being of Light which then told her “It is not time” . That prevented her from moving further forward. She then found herself returning to the physical world.

Reinee’s microscopic and macroscopic view of life from the Other Side is yet another testimony of the ‘We are One’ concept. Today’s scientists even use terms like ‘entanglement’ that connote this theme of how everyone and everything is connected. I truly agree with what many spiritual people have opined – that the only separation that exists between humans is …. one that they create in their mind.

A More Open World

“I feel that the best companies are started not because the founder wanted a company but because the founder wanted to change the world….

Facebook was not originally created to be a company. It was built to accomplish a social mission – to make the world more open and connected.”

The aforementioned quotes are from the creator of the hugely popular Facebook, Mr. Mark Zuckerberg. Interestingly, many years ago, Mr. Lee Carroll a sound engineer started to receive messages from the Divine and began channeling them to the public. One of his earlier messages was that there will come a time when people around the world would be able to communicate with each other very easily and once that happens, things would change for the better as people would be more empowered. The following is an excerpt of Mr. Lee’s channeling (of Kryon) in Year 2010 :-

“Now I give you something that few think about: What do you think the Internet is all about, historically? Citizens of all the countries on Earth can talk to one another without electronic borders. The young people of those nations can all see each other, talk to each other, and express opinions. No matter what the country does to suppress it, they’re doing it anyway. They are putting together a network of consciousness, of oneness, a multicultural consciousness. It’s here to stay. It’s part of the new energy. The young people know it and are leading the way.

I gave you a prophecy more than 10 years ago. I told you there would come a day when “everyone could talk to everyone and, therefore, there could be no conspiracy.” For conspiracy depends on separation and secrecy – something hiding in the dark that only a few know about. Seen the news lately? What is happening? Could it be that there is a new paradigm happening that seems to go against history?”

The said messages are very consistent with the teachings of many spiritual people today. The New Earth that such people (including author Eckhart Tolle) talk about is regarding a shift in human consciousness to World Unity. As people have better communication tools and greater access to information, the old paradigm of dictatorships and separation will fade even faster. And on that note, I express gratitude to all the technopreneurs for creating such tools for the betterment of society. Also, I hope the end users of such technology will use it to spread Love & Truth and not Fear & Lies.

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