Self -Worth Issues

I believe that one of the greatest challenges that humanity faces is lack of self-worth. It is so prevalent that I can observe this in the way people keep checking their social media accounts to see how many ‘likes’ they have gotten for their postings e.g. Facebook & YouTube. It’s as though their importance or worthiness hinges upon how many people admire, approve or agree with what they have posted. If one truly loves and appreciate oneself, the need for such external approval or admiration will surely subside. The continuous dependency for such acknowledgment of self from others becomes a ‘drug’ that hooks such media users into a constant loop of posting and checking.

When a person truly has a good sense of self-worth and confidence, then it matters not whether the person has zero or a billion ‘likes’. What I have learnt from people who channel divine messages from the Other Side, is that the technology of social media was created for the purpose of helping humanity unite by bridging people living in different locale and those with different background. It was also created as a tool to share and disseminate information. For a very long time the mass media , owned by rich and power crazy moguls , was feeding public news that have been skewed according to the wishes of their owners. In that sense, the masses were led to believe something that doesn’t truly reflect real life situations. But with the emergence of the Internet, news could not be controlled or manipulated so easily anymore. It allowed people to by-pass traditional media to seek alternative views or answers.

Sadly, such technology is now becoming a doubled-edged sword, as many users succumb to the allure of instant Internet fame or recognition. The more ‘likes’ they obtain, the more their ego has a hold on their psyche. Humans have truly forgotten that Earth is a planet of learning. In my opinion, it’s imperative for us to remember to stay balanced and not to let physicality entrap us. Regardless of the circumstances in the outer world, our inner world ought to be peaceful, loving and appreciative of Self. Perhaps, the following affirmation may help those whose inner world is lacking in positive vibes.

“I acknowledge the beauty and benevolence within.

I forgive myself for all my previous mistakes in life, as I realise it’s just part of my journey of living and learning.

I now let go of any guilt or shame that may still be affecting my self-worth.

I reclaim the confidence within to allow my authenticity to shine.

In doing so, I release the need to seek recognition from others as I deem myself worthy and deserving.

Embracing this, I am finally at peace with myself.

I truly love and appreciate myself … for who I AM.

It is done.

And so it is.”

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Dealing With Depression And Suppressed Emotions

It’s quite ironic that we as a modern society living in the Information Age, still have so many cases of depression being diagnosed by doctors or medical practitioners. Often such people having depression actually report feeling lonely, lost, sad or hopeless. In my reiki healing practice, I too detect quite a few people with trapped emotions. Such people really need an outlet or ought to express themselves openly rather than keeping it all bottled inside. However, as a proportion of them fear being judged as dysfunctional, they resort to putting up a brave front by not admitting their emotional issues. Others remain silent due to the absence of a “willing listener”. Over a period of time, such debilitating emotions can turn out to be a silent killer.

In my healing work, I often rely on angelic/spirit guidance. On most occasions, I am asked by the Divine to practice reiki on my clients. However, there have been cases, whereby Archangel Michael asked me to teach them the Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) – a healing modality using acupressure, so that they could help themselves. In one particular case, as I guided my client to practice the EFT, a clairvoyant who was sitting nearby reported seeing the person’s aura brighten up! Initially the clairvoyant described this person’s aura as dark ( implying lack of energy). In other words by freeing trapped emotions within, the said person’s energy started to flow better.

In another unique case, I was asked to pass a message by the Goddess of Mercy (Quan Yin) to a lady who was carrying a lot sadness and frustration. Instead of being asked to do healing (reiki) for this said person, the divine advice was for this person to write down all the pent up feelings within herself on a piece of paper. Apparently, apart from verbalising, writing was another good way of expressing ourselves- to get emotions out of our chest. The lady did what was suggested and later replied joyfully to me that she actually felt much better! (Note: Interestingly, that day happened to fall on a Super Moon day, which is an excellent day for releasing things that do not serve us anymore, as the moon amplifies the healing effect.)

Yet another case involved a male friend of mine who was taking anti-depressant pills to heal his condition. When I asked Archangel Michael to ‘scan’ him, I was told that the root cause of his condition was his procrastination in living out his true life purpose. Apparently, he was well paid in his present job, but that occupation didn’t yield the satisfaction that his inner soul was yearning. My divine reading tied in with his own personal consultation with a psychic medium who said that he needs to change his career path, to something more fulfilling. As such, taking those medicine only provided him a temporary relief but was not a lasting solution. Again, this problem is about people not expressing their true self or inner desires.

Depression is real health problem and not something to be mocked about. Not admitting or avoiding it can lead to severe consequences, in the long term. Those dealing with people suffering from depression also need to be patient and considerate. From my experience, the key elements to returning to good health are honesty and openness. In the end, I believe there is no shame in people admitting that they need help or seeking help.

When We Were Young…

When we were young,

When we were new

To this world…

We judged no one

And we thought no one judged us too.

But with each passing day,

And each passing moment,

Our heart is hurt,

By seeing what people say or do.

There are times,

When wished we hadn’t come,

To this blue planet.

What we once held true,

No longer holds true…

In an ever discriminating world.

And then one quiet night,

As if fate intervened,

A light so bright,

Brought back the vision of Love,

An everlasting Love..

A Love so true,

That knows not how to judge..

And then it dawned upon us,

That we need to remember..

To keep our spirits high,

But our expectations low.

With this knowledge by our side…

Once again we rejoice,

And rise above petty drama.

To see the actors involved,

In a new light.

A light of hope,

That they too will remember,

The spark of Love…

The source of Life…

In themselves and others.

And so, patiently we wait,

Day by day,

Moment by moment,

Never losing faith,

Never losing trust.

That somehow and someday,

We will ALL Unite.

That Oneness isn’t just a dream,

In this judgmental world.

Instead, discrimination is the illusion,

Within the ultimate reality …

Of the One Source called Love.

Humanity is One Family,

And so it is.

Day 11-1-11

11th January 2018 translates into an interesting breakdown of Day 11 ; Month 1; Year 11 (i.e. 2+0+1+8) or 11-1-11 from the standpoint of numerology.

11 denotes illumination / clarity / enlightenment and 1 represents new beginnings/decisions. Hence the day carries an energetic potential of awakening to a new starting point. It calls for a reconnection to the divine within…a melding of the heart and mind, of being true to oneself…one that speaks of integrity. Basically it’s a call to align our action with our heart. One of the most admirable person who has ever walked the surface of the planet is the late Mahatma Gandhi, whose many words of wisdom still ring true today. This peaceful man possessed a great level of integrity as he practiced what he preached. Many humans , on the other hand, put on a mask, as they try to portray themselves to be someone they are not, or behave like a hypocrite by NOT practicing what they preach, notably politicians.

Lack of integrity is inconsistency, and the following quote from Gandhi is most relevant during these times of great changes taking place all around the world.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.”

And so it is.

2018 – A New Hope

Disciple : Master, what does a New Year signify spiritually?

Master : That life IS a cycle… Most humans think linearly… For example, there seems to be a past , the ‘now moment’ called present as well as the future. It is what the human brain perceives well.

Disciple : Hmm… are you alluding to the notion that time does not run in a straight line?

Master : In the human thinking, it exists but from the Universal Mind, everything revolves… including the spin of the electrons. To many, Earth has its seasonal cycles. Hence, there are cycles upon cycles … from the smallest to the largest. As Earth completes its cycle around the Sun, other planetary bodies in this solar system would have revolved around its respective orbits too. That itself changes the energetic potential for life on this planet.

Disciple : Could you please give more specific examples?

Master : Very well… how are waves of the sea created? Why are there high and low tides? Is that not due to the gravitational interaction between the Moon and Earth?

Disciple : I see…. but how are we to benefit from understanding Life as being cyclical instead of being linear?

Master : To know that Life itself is divinely orchestrated and humans can adapt and change when opportunity arises. Have you noticed that many of our human friends stay stuck in their grief, frustrations, disappointments , not remembering that nothing is permanent?

Disciple : Most definitely!

Master : That is because of their mentality telling them they can’t heal from the past. Reincarnation is an example of how souls get to re-learn the lessons they failed in their previous lives.

Disciple : So what advice would you give to those who ask for guidance for this new cycle called Year 2018?

Master : Well, instead only making new resolutions at the beginning of each year, why not make resolutions on a DAILY basis?

Disciple: Er… such as…?

Master : To quote one of the gifted channellers on this planet called Darryl Anka, we could say “Today, I resolve to act on my highest level of excitement” . If that does not yield the most desirable results , know that we can always choose again … The cycle of creation and re-creation is endless as our consciousness is always in a state of evolution. We live , therefore we create. As we create, we experience. Learning from experience , we re-create . That’s the cycle of Life.

Earth – A Land Of Possibilities

“Although the life of a person is in a land full of thorns and weeds, there IS always a space in which the good seed can grow.”

⁃ Pope Francis

Learning From The Dead

Do dead people still talk? Well according to world renowned psychic medium , James Van Praagh, those departed souls not only still converse but often relay very wise advice to those still having a physical incarnation on Earth. James explained in his book called Unfinished Business that souls have on many occasions expressed to him their regrets of not doing the things they could have, would have or should have done when they were ‘alive’. The reason for my posting this article is because Archangel Gabriel prompted me recently to give a talk about this topic to a group of friends of mine. (Note: Archangel Gabriel is often known to work with people who help relay spiritual messages. Years ago, that being appeared when I was writing my book, Passion For Truths.) The rationale is because no one knows how much time they have left in this world and as such we ought to live life to the fullest and without regrets.

Interestingly, not long after that angelic visitation, my attention was drawn to a YouTube video testimonial of a person who had a Near Death Experience (NDE) by the name of Peter Anthony. Peter explained that he actually died on an operating table of a hospital in 1987 at 11:11 pm on 11th November (11-11). His soul floated above the physical body and then crossed over to the Other Side. In that dimension, he was given a chance to review his life by seeing many moments where he could have, should have or would have done something but didn’t. After the review, his soul was given a choice to either remain in the spirit world or to return to his human life. He decided to choose the latter and make amends by practicing loving and considerate actions after returning to his physical body. Peter’s case is so similar to the content of James’ book in the sense that the ultimate message to us is NOT to procrastinate or hesitate. So often we humans hold back our passion or inner desire to wait for the ‘right’ moment to do something but not understanding that sometimes the perfect time might never come.

And so, if you have a strong urge or inner calling to do something (e.g. start a project) or to express yourself (e.g. to tell someone that we love him/her or to apologise to people whom we have hurt), we might want to take a cue from Nike’s slogan – ‘Just Do It’….. before it is too late.

As they say, Life is too short for regrets…and this is what the Dead can teach us about Life itself.

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